Child abandonment in SA: hidden & heart-breaking
In the absence of comprehensive government-led research, it is hard to obtain an accurate picture of the extent and impact of child abandonment in South Africa. But, what we do know is deeply troubling:
- It is commonly cited that about 3500 children are abandoned annually (approximately 300 per month) but that figure only includes survivors. The total number of abandonments is far higher. Estimates are that only one third of abandoned children survive, and in Gauteng for example, for every abandoned child found alive, two are found dead.
- For this reason, a recent Medical Research Council study on child homicide reveals that children in South Africa are at the highest risk of unnatural death in the first six days of life.
- Research shows that 65% of abandoned children are newborns, and 90% are under the age of one.
- A large number of babies have already survived a late-term abortion prior to being abandoned. 52-58% of South Africa’s abortions are illegal (up to 150 000 per annum), and in Gauteng, studies indicate that up to half of these abortions (which are seldom policed, and often unsuccessful) take place in the third trimester.
- 70% of abandonments are unsafe.
- Many abandoned babies are never found.
- Safe abandonment is illegal in South Africa so all of the country’s baby safes operate unlawfully.
- Girls under the age of 18 can consent to an abortion, but cannot place a child for adoption without a guardian’s consent.
- Foreigners risk deportation if they try to place a child for adoption.
- Abandonment is no longer listed as a violent crime in South Africa, or included in crime statistics. Nor is it listed as a cause of death in South African mortuaries. There is therefore no accurate tally of how many children die as a result of abandonment.
- To date, no formal research has been completed by the government to track abandonment, and no measures put in place to counter it.
Given the nature of child abandonment, it is easy and obvious to blame birth mothers. But, studies show that abandonment most frequently results from desperation due to poverty and unemployment, the breakdown of the family, HIV/AIDS, cultural beliefs, rape, incest, “blessers or sugar daddies” and women themselves being abandoned by the child’s father. Government policy is also a huge contributing factor, as is anti-adoption sentiment on the part of many nurses and officials.
Endemic problems like poverty and abuse are hard to address, so child abandonment is likely to continue long-term. But, changes to government policy, such as lowering the age of consent for adoption placement, facilitating safe abandonment and dealing with xenophobic policies regarding foreigners and adoption would definitely save lives; as would policing, especially of illegal abortion practitioners. In addition, research, and listing abandonment in crime and mortuary statistics could help to quantify and manage the problem. Finally, pregnancy initiatives are essential to support vulnerable women and lessen the risk of them making the tragic decision to abandon.
You can help by joining the Baby Box initiatives being run across the country this Mandela Day. They are designed to encourage moms experiencing a crisis pregnancy to bond with their baby and feel empowered to raise the child or place them for adoption, instead of abandoning them.
By Robyn Wolfson Vorster
Writer, researcher and child protection advocate: www.becomingamom.co.za